Hello, and welcome to Aisle Less Traveled!

I’m Cindy Savage, your queer feminist wedding anti-status-quo planner. I help independent, feminist, and LGBTQ people like you plan meaningful weddings while keeping your sanity and your budget intact.

I offer a full range of wedding planning and coordination services, including Choose Your Own Wedding, an affordable monthly wedding planning subscription. I’m based in St. Louis, MO, and I travel for FREE within the continental United States – so we can work together no matter where you are.

I know you’re busy (who isn’t?) and I don’t want to waste the time you could be spending on another Buffy rewatch, so let me help you decide if you should keep looking around my website!


  • You think everyone deserves love and the opportunity to marry the person they’ve found it with, no matter what their sexual orientation, race, gender identity, religion, ability, or body size is
  • You roll your eyes and groan when you see/hear wedding vendors referring to the bride all day long without ever mentioning the groom (or acknowledging that there might be two grooms, or none) because you know that’s some patriarchal bullshit
  • Your wedding might be called offbeat because you’re making choices that are right for you, even if that causes people to say things like, “if you don’t do X, it’s not a real wedding.” (Newsflash: if two people get hitched, it’s a real wedding!)
  • You’ve set a wedding budget that feels comfortable to you, and you want to stick to it, even if it’s vastly different from the “average” wedding budgets you’ve seen
  • Your wedding will be pretty traditional, but everything above speaks directly to your hearts
  • You want your wedding to put something good back into the world

Chances are, you’ve never planned a wedding before, and while you have some grand ideas, you could use some help figuring out how to make them happen. That’s where I come in.

Here’s what i’ve got keep you sane:

» no musts, shouldn’ts, or judgment – just your wedding, the way you want it, with my expert guidance to make it happen

» one-on-one planning help available to everyone through the magical powers of the internet – and you can do it in your yoga pants (or no pants) if you like

» coordination and planning packages that include FREE TRAVEL within the continental United States so you don’t have to worry about extra costs eating into your budget

» wedding planning subscriptions at an affordable monthly price, which include a self-paced, online wedding planning course, monthly “Ask Me Anything” live Q&As, and a private group where you’ll get my expert advice on your individual questions and plans

» a free facebook group where you can meet your fellow off-the-beaten-path engaged peeps, get advice and answers from me and other wedding pros, share ideas, and make new friends