Queer, Feminist, Secular Wedding Officiant
Seattle Weddings & Elopements

I’m thrilled to introduce my newest service: Officiating your wedding!​

I’ve been planning and attending weddings for almost a decade. I have watched and listened to many, many wedding ceremonies and, over the years, I have learned what makes a good one. The answer? An officiant who takes the time to get to know you and creates a ceremony that showcases your personalities and celebrates your relationship – exactly as you are.

I have also heard my clients asking over and over: “Where can we find a secular wedding officiant who gets us?” because the truth is that it can be really difficult to find someone who does. At Aisle Less Traveled, I have always worked to be a brand and a person who embraces and serves folks who are often overlooked by the wedding industry: those of us who are not straight, white, skinny, wealthy, and Christian and who don’t see ourselves in much of the wedding media.

So I’m thrilled to introduce wedding ceremonies for my people – you independent, feminist, LGBTQ+ (or ally) types who are looking for a progressive, secular wedding officiant to create a meaningful and joyful wedding ceremony that works for you!

Officiating Amanda & Christina's sunrise ceremony at Glacier National Park

Packages & Pricing

As always, I’m all about giving you the details you need before you spend time inquiring – so here you go!
(Please note my COVID policies below before inquiring.)

Short & Sweet - $275

Choose a declaration of intent and a ring exchange text from my collection. Add your vows (either written by you or chosen from those I provide) and I’ll put it all together into a ceremony that lasts 5-10 minutes.

This package is available on weekdays in the Seattle metro area only and does not include review or approval of the final ceremony text.

Tailored & Simple - $450

Everything in the short & sweet package, plus you can choose 1-2 readings and incorporate a unity ritual (such as handfasting, sand ceremony, or a unity cocktail). This ceremony lasts about 10-15 minutes.

You will have the opportunity to review the ceremony script, request changes, and approve the final text.

CompletelY custom - $675

Using detailed info that the two of you will provide, I will create a completely custom ceremony that incorporates your love story along with any readings, community pledges/group participation, ring warming, or other unity rituals that you would like to include. 

You will have the opportunity to review the ceremony script, request changes, and approve the final text.

All officiant packages include:

  • Writing a secular, feminist, LGBTQ+ inclusive ceremony for your wedding
  • One pre-wedding consultation to review the details, including processional/recessional order, music, and any readings or rituals included
  • Officiating your ceremony
  • Completing and returning your marriage license to the appropriate government official
Attendance at and facilitation of your rehearsal may be added to any package for $150.

Check Your Date & Inquire

Cindy Savage | Queer Feminist Wedding Planner

how totally stoked I'm gonna be when your email hits my inbox!

Photo © Amanda Summerlin Photography

Aisle Less Traveled policies for new wedding bookings during the COVID-19 pandemic:

  • All weddings must comply with government and health department mandates, including gathering limits, masks, and social distancing.
  • 2021 Weddings
    • We are currently accepting elopements and small/micro weddings that are planned for up to 50 guests.
    • We are only accepting new bookings for Seattle metro area weddings through July 2021.
    • Beginning August 2021, we are accepting bookings throughout the Puget Sound region and Portland metro area for up to 100 guests.
  • 2022 Weddings
    • Now booking full planning and wedding management for weddings throughout the throughout the Puget Sound region and Portland metro area, without restrictions on the number of guests.
    • Limited spots are available for full planning clients whose weddings require air travel. We will allow our team two weeks before and after each wedding to self-isolate for your and our safety.
    • We will begin accepting wedding management bookings that require air travel in the fall. Please contact us if you’d like to join our waitlist.
    • At this time, we are not accepting international weddings for 2022.
  • If at any time the local guidelines are stricter than ours, weddings must adhere to the stricter local guidelines.
  • All Aisle Less Traveled contracts provide a no-fee reschedule if your wedding cannot be held as planned due to COVID.
  • These policies will likely continue to change as the pandemic and vaccination efforts progress. Please reach out if you have any questions about them before scheduling your consultation! 

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