Queer, Feminist, Secular Wedding Officiant
Seattle Weddings & Elopements

I’m thrilled to introduce my newest service: Officiating your wedding!​

I’ve been planning and attending weddings for almost a decade. I have watched and listened to many, many wedding ceremonies and, over the years, I have learned what makes a good one. The answer? An officiant who takes the time to get to know you and creates a ceremony that showcases your personalities and celebrates your relationship – exactly as you are.

I have also heard my clients asking over and over: “Where can we find a secular wedding officiant who gets us?” because the truth is that it can be really difficult to find someone who does. At Aisle Less Traveled, I have always worked to be a brand and a person who embraces and serves folks who are often overlooked by the wedding industry: those of us who are not straight, white, skinny, wealthy, and Christian and who don’t see ourselves in much of the wedding media.

So I’m thrilled to introduce wedding ceremonies for my people – you independent, feminist, LGBTQ+ (or ally) types who are looking for a progressive, secular wedding officiant to create a meaningful and joyful wedding ceremony that works for you!

Officiating Amanda & Christina's sunrise ceremony at Glacier National Park

Packages & Pricing

As always, I’m all about giving you the details you need before you spend time inquiring – so here you go!
(Please note my COVID policies below before inquiring.)

Short & Sweet - $275

Choose a declaration of intent and a ring exchange text from my collection. Add your vows (either written by you or chosen from those I provide) and I’ll put it all together into a ceremony that lasts 5-10 minutes.

This package is available on weekdays in the Seattle metro area only and does not include review or approval of the final ceremony text.

Tailored & Simple - $450

Everything in the short & sweet package, plus you can choose 1-2 readings and incorporate a unity ritual (such as handfasting, sand ceremony, or a unity cocktail). This ceremony lasts about 10-15 minutes.

You will have the opportunity to review the ceremony script, request changes, and approve the final text.

CompletelY custom - $675

Using detailed info that the two of you will provide, I will create a completely custom ceremony that incorporates your love story along with any readings, community pledges/group participation, ring warming, or other unity rituals that you would like to include. 

You will have the opportunity to review the ceremony script, request changes, and approve the final text.

All officiant packages include:

  • Writing a secular, feminist, LGBTQ+ inclusive ceremony for your wedding
  • One pre-wedding consultation to review the details, including processional/recessional order, music, and any readings or rituals included
  • Officiating your ceremony
  • Completing and returning your marriage license to the appropriate government official
Attendance at and facilitation of your rehearsal may be added to any package for $150.

Check Your Date & Inquire

Cindy Savage | Queer Feminist Wedding Planner

how totally stoked I'm gonna be when your email hits my inbox!

Photo © Amanda Summerlin Photography

Aisle Less Traveled policies for new wedding bookings during the COVID-19 pandemic:

  • All weddings must comply with government and health department mandates, including gathering limits, masks, and social distancing.
  • 2020 Weddings
    • I am accepting elopements, tiny weddings, and micro weddings that are planned for 5 or fewer guests in Phase 2 or 10 or fewer guests in Phase 3.
    • Dates are limited to keep at least two weeks in between weddings so that I can self-isolate for your and my protection. 
    • I am only accepting bookings for Seattle metro area weddings for the remainder of 2020.
  • 2021 Weddings
    • January – July: I am currently accepting weddings that are planned for fewer than 30 guests.
    • August – December: I am accepting weddings that are planned for fewer than 100 guests.
    • Dates are limited to keep at least one week in between weddings so that I can self-isolate for your and my protection.
    • I am only accepting new bookings for Seattle and Portland, Oregon metro area weddings in 2021.
  • 2022 Weddings
    • Now booking for full planning & design clients anywhere in the US with no restrictions! 
  • If at any time the local guidelines are stricter than mine, weddings must adhere to the stricter local guidelines.
  • All Aisle Less Traveled contracts provide a no-fee reschedule if your wedding cannot be held as planned due to COVID.
  • These policies will likely continue change as the pandemic, and our national response to it, progresses. We hope we’ll be able to travel and gather again safely soon!

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